All you need to Know

For the ladies, an elegant dress — long or short, whichever you feel wonderful in. As tradition holds, white is reserved for the bride alone. For the gentlemen, a full suit with a tie or bow tie.

Your invitation will indicate whether a guest has been included — as a rule, we’ve reserved a place for the partners we know. If anything is unclear, please don’t hesitate to reach out and we’ll be glad to help.

While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration — think of it as a night for you to relax, enjoy, and dance the evening away with us. Thank you so much for understanding.

Parking around the cathedral is a little tricky, so we kindly ask you to arrive early to avoid any delays. At Michael Garden, valet parking will be available for your convenience.

We’ve chosen the timing of each moment with care, so the whole day can unfold without rushing. We kindly ask you to follow the timeline so we can savor every part of it together.

Photo time with us is reserved at each of our family homes, at the times noted in the schedule. To keep the day flowing, we won’t be able to take photos after the ceremony at the cathedral — that moment is set aside for the couple’s photoshoot. And if time allows at the venue, we’d love to capture a photo with those who couldn’t join us at home. We so appreciate your understanding.